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Make the Transition Gradualy

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Don’t rush the process. Start by encouraging your child to use their security item less often, only during certain times (like bedtime). For example, they might only need the blanket when they’re going to sleep but can be encouraged to play without it during the day.

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2. Offer a Comforting Alternative

Introduce a new source of comfort, like a special pillow or cozy blanket they can use for relaxation time. This can help ease the transition and give them something else to hold when they feel anxious.

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3. Create a Reward System

Offer small rewards or praise for using their security item less often. For example, give them a sticker every time they make it through an afternoon without the stuffed toy. Over time, these positive reinforcements will help them feel good about the change.

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4. Use Positive Reinforcement

Acknowledge your child’s bravery and independence as they start to separate from their comfort item. Celebrate their milestones—whether it’s taking a nap without it or leaving it at home when going out. Positive reinforcement goes a long way.

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5. Be Consistent

Consistency is key. If you allow them to have the item back at times when they’re feeling particularly upset, it can confuse them and set back progress. Stick to the plan, but be gentle.

6. Provide Extra Comfort and Reassurance

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Understand that this transition can be emotional for your child, so be patient. Offer extra hugs, praise, and love, and let them know it’s okay to feel nervous. The more secure they feel with you, the easier it will be to let go of the security item.